tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38184985.post5516851371853037835..comments2023-10-31T06:08:09.622-04:00Comments on Our Boy and His Cricket: Dark Dark DarkKaycehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01473905322257543749noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38184985.post-71360685131541008002007-10-18T21:55:00.000-04:002007-10-18T21:55:00.000-04:00I am sorry. I don't know any other words that do ...I am sorry. I don't know any other words that do not come off as something I don't mean them to. Its unfair, its scary, and its sometimes depressing. <BR/><BR/>I've found myself avoiding choosing a name, or buying baby things lately, because it feels too hard, and too risky sometimes to think as an expectant parent does and should. Its sad that distancing ourselves from the child we're adopting and the process is necessary, because we were and are so excited about it, in our hearts. Its been a very bumpy, unprecedented ride for the past year for all of us.Tamarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04549276862024962479noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38184985.post-22010748514161879762007-10-16T14:19:00.000-04:002007-10-16T14:19:00.000-04:00Oh Kayce. I am so sorry. I can't even imagine th...Oh Kayce. I am so sorry. I can't even imagine the pain right now. I wish that I had some great words of wisdom. I am praying for you guys. If you need anything, please don't hesitate to email or call. XOXOAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38184985.post-42047993370777728332007-10-16T11:25:00.000-04:002007-10-16T11:25:00.000-04:00I'm with Terri. Hang in there... Call me if you n...I'm with Terri. Hang in there... Call me if you need me.Stephaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17694920109688869151noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38184985.post-81004834399470215592007-10-16T07:45:00.000-04:002007-10-16T07:45:00.000-04:00ughh not sure what to say, just sending you hugs.....ughh not sure what to say, just sending you hugs...hold on in there..xElisa...life as we know it.https://www.blogger.com/profile/09694115298853432814noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38184985.post-68380408425624339762007-10-15T20:14:00.000-04:002007-10-15T20:14:00.000-04:00The RQ is always blowing out candles.The RQ is always blowing out candles.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38184985.post-50517350538062129052007-10-15T19:57:00.000-04:002007-10-15T19:57:00.000-04:00:( I know that sinking feeling well. I'm sorry. Pr...:( I know that sinking feeling well. I'm sorry. Praying for you.Terri | Sugar Free Glowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11256945994112747873noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38184985.post-32603303848446362102007-10-15T12:59:00.000-04:002007-10-15T12:59:00.000-04:00what? an agency got a "surprise" referral? what ...what? an agency got a "surprise" referral? what the hell?!<BR/><BR/>i'm sorry kayce... i'll pray for your sanity today.Kristinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15120658117796151128noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38184985.post-16741919304722799932007-10-15T11:48:00.000-04:002007-10-15T11:48:00.000-04:00Sitting there in the dark with you.Hugs!Sitting there in the dark with you.<BR/><BR/>Hugs!4Dhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15497882301211681198noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38184985.post-90039450300878722402007-10-15T02:55:00.000-04:002007-10-15T02:55:00.000-04:00OH Kayce I am sooooo sorry for your pain!! I was s...OH Kayce I am sooooo sorry for your pain!! I was shocked when I read on RQ about the April batch. That is just amazlingly wrong!! Honestly, it is a day by day journey and I totally feel your pain. Last Christmas when that song by 3rd day came out "Merry Christmas" I think-- I literally lost it every time I heard it. I just could not belive I was going to go through another Christmas without my Mia. It was heart wrenching and I am still moved to tears when I think about it. Your pain is felt by so many and I too feel it. Hold on Kayce. I know it means very little right now, but your time will come and your little girl will be home to her mommy and daddy very soon!!<BR/><BR/>Christy :)Christyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03077047658906478290noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38184985.post-50986278961994124502007-10-14T22:19:00.000-04:002007-10-14T22:19:00.000-04:00I am so sorry, Kayce. I wish there was something I...I am so sorry, Kayce. I wish there was something I could say to make you feel better, but there just isn't. Please know that I care about you and I'm waiting with you in spirit.Joannahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12268912691024764398noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38184985.post-29225851028490870492007-10-14T22:15:00.000-04:002007-10-14T22:15:00.000-04:00It comes in waves, doesn't it? I had dinner with ...It comes in waves, doesn't it? I had dinner with a bunch of families adopting from Ethiopia - the piteous looks that they gave us when they heard how long we'd been waiting & how much longer it will be were sad. Made me sad. It is very sad.....wzgirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17803260442691384173noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38184985.post-82028832331394667672007-10-14T21:46:00.000-04:002007-10-14T21:46:00.000-04:00Yes, it's looking pretty grim. We are LID 2/5/07,...Yes, it's looking pretty grim. We are LID 2/5/07, it's looking like 2-3 more years for us. There is nothing we can do but focus on today and try not to lose it.redmaryjaneshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09768158710291676368noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38184985.post-86865718298785573062007-10-14T20:49:00.000-04:002007-10-14T20:49:00.000-04:00I'm sorry. It's so, so hard to go on everyday wai...I'm sorry. It's so, so hard to go on everyday waiting, thinking maybe this time it will be a 15 or 20 day batch. The excitement and hope of the first time we submitted out application gets eaten away with every small batch. I wish I had the magic words to tell people, to tell myself, but I just don't, no one does. I pray China isn't holding back children just to save face, that would brake my heart more than the wait.<BR/>We can only concentrate on our lives now and hope for a better tomorrow.adele and danhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03028893424545917481noreply@blogger.com